Unpopular Opinion

The job search has a lesson for us, and it’s one you might not want to hear.

But trust me—it’s one you need to hear.

I wish I didn’t have to say this, but it’s the truth I’ve seen over a decade of working with candidates.

It’s the truth I’ve lived myself. It sucks. It’s frustrating 99% of the time, humbling, and often heartbreaking. And for anyone who’s been through it, the job search is exactly that.

In a world of economic uncertainty, where we wake up each day checking to see if the ground beneath us is still solid, the job search feels heavier than ever.

But here’s the thing:

The job search teaches us.

It shows us gratitude—not through soft whispers but through harsh wake-up calls.

I’ve interviewed executives flying high, making big$$$, living on clouds of success—only to see everything change in an instant.

The pain of losing a job is real, but what’s even more profound is the clarity it brings.

Suddenly, they see the gift of what they had: the steady paycheck that supported their family, the colleagues who added meaning to the daily grind, even the challenges that helped them grow.

Yet here’s the uncomfortable truth:

We rarely appreciate it until it’s gone.

Why do we wait for hardship to open our eyes?

Why does it take economic collapse, personal struggle, or loss to make us pause and reflect on the abundance we already have?

So here’s my vision for 2025:

What if we practiced gratitude—not as a response to pain but as a way of life?

Imagine this: every workplace introduces “gratitude bubbles”—quiet spaces free from noise, free from tech, where you can sit and reflect. No words, no meetings, just moments to reconnect with the abundance that surrounds us. A space to ground ourselves in all that is right, all that we have, and all that’s possible.

Gratitude grounds us. It connects us. It reminds us that even amidst uncertainty, there’s beauty in the basics: health (if we have it), work (if we can find it), and each other.

But this isn’t just about creating a better workplace. It’s about creating better humans.

And here’s the punchline:

Be the workplace you want to work for.

Be the colleague who sees the good in the chaos. Be the leader who celebrates the quiet victories. Be the person who practices gratitude—not because the world forces you to, but because you know it changes everything.

So, as 2025 unfolds, I leave you with this challenge:

Disconnect from distraction. Connect with your heart. Remember your essence. And together, let’s create something extraordinary.

Because here’s the truth:

Gratitude isn’t just a practice. It’s a revolution.